What is HATING?

I never been a hater that's not in my nature at all but, please excuse me if my "realness" offends you. I give credit where its due that's it nothing more and nothing less. I'm the type of person that if you ask me if something looks wack and I think its wack I'm gone tell ya ass its wack its that simple. I'm like don't ask me shit cause I'm gone give my honest opinion about whatever you ask me *shrugs*. People call me mean sometimes cause I'm being honest...I try not to offer my honest opinion if people don't ask cause they often think I'm "hating" when I'm just giving my honest opinion. I mean like really the question at hand I think is "what is hating"? I think people often get the two hating and being real mixed up but, then it again its all matters of opinion that's what it really is, a person giving their opinion about something. Don't get me wrong they're people out there that has the occupation of full-time hating believe me on that. Those people that spend most of their time hating or being negative have special issues within that needs to be fix before they stop hating all the damn time and those people know it deep down please believe that much. I often do think that people who are nice looking and have something going for themselves get hated on the most because, the truth is people don't want to see other people succeed in life so they try to bring them down anyway possible. I feel like this goes on more amongst us African Americans and its sad. I'm not saying other race of people don't have hating but, I think its more among African Americans then any other race *shrugs*.

Men will be Men/Boys will be Boys!

I'm gone start this off by saying this...... guys do some things that just make us women look at them with a *blank stare* Like are you freaking kidding me dude .....did u really just say that or did u really just do that.......Guys will do guy stuff like umm lets see just to name a few....the good ol fashion butt grab, send us a pic of his "thang thang" without out us asking, trying to have sex on the first night, holla at every girl we are with when they meet us, and just the typical guy stuff that you could think of the list of things that guys do can go on forever.

Well I remember being a little younger and the "typical guy stuff" would just piss me off to the highest level, but as I got a little older I realized that MEN will be MEN. Men wouldn't be men if they didn't do the typical guy stuff they do that pisses us women off to the highest level at times or make us look at them wit that *blank stare* that we give them at times. So now wen I encounter guy doing "typical guy stuff" i cant even be mad at him just because he is a freaking guy and he cant help it.