Man whats up with guys thinking they can date a girl "go through the motions" with a girl but never commit to the relationship?? I mean its like this guys will really "dig" a girl and everything but never commit to her because, well I think he wants to keep his options open I'm guessing or he doesn't want to feel obligated to do "relationship things". With all this being said you guys expect for the girl not to catch feelings which most of the time is impossible. If you chillin with a girl 5 days out of a 7 day week she at your crib or her at yours what do you expect? You do all the things that a couple would do but, the only thing is I guess u guys are not "official". So when he does slip up he can lean on tha fact that its not "official". I mean what makes a relationship "official" like really? I mean we're past the stage where the guy or girl writes on piece of paper will you go out wit me check yes or no aren't we? If you are dating a girl for about a year and a half and seeing her on a regular basis I mean what is that? Guys expect for the girls not to get in our feelings knowing we are but instead of breaking it off you guys don't because, you really got feelings for the girl and want her around but, at you guys disposal. Women are emotional and guys know this but still ignore the fact that we are emotional and run over us. I dont know what it is really I jus had to get this off my chest I would love for men and women to leave a comment on what u guys think I appreaciate it a lot thnx in advance.
Just gonna stand there and watch me burnthat’s alright because I like the way it hurtsjust gonna stand there and hear me crythat’s alright because i love the way you liei love the way you lie
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ReplyDeletesometimes its easier NOT to be in a relationship because the breaking up aspect of it sucks ass... If there are no titles involved yall can remain exclusive... sayin this is my bf/gf changes alot... cause then the questions start to arise and who likes having to answer to someone. I'm all for relationships doe but to me if you know i feel a certain way about you and the feelings are mutual no title is needed to put a stamp on what we have... #thatisall #okbye
ReplyDeleteRob I agree with you thnx boo!! xclusive
ReplyDeleteOk...I'm gonna take this from another viewpoint....All points that have been made above are entirely true. BUT there are times when the reason guys don't wanna "fully commit" is because of their past situations. Now, we men don't like to show our emotions all the time, but I know that there are plenty of men who have been hurt in their past as well and may not be ready to let anyone back in on that level. As hard as it is to believe there are great men out there who take care of they women and the man ends up getting hurt. It doesn't have to be the woman messing up, it could be bad timing, anything. But trust MEN DO HURT, IT'S NOT JUST WOMEN LOL. Now, to be truthfully honest, I think it varies from situation to situation. You have certain relationships that both parties already know that it's not going any further to the "title" level and it is what it is. You have certain situations where things are chill at first and then time is spent and emotions develop and then you're at a cross roads and you don't know which way to turn because things were never defined from the beginning. The two most important things out of all this is COMMUNICATION/HONESTY....If both parties are willing to keep an open and honest communication line, then both parties will know where the other one stands. Now the sucky part about love and relationships is that if things don't work out, somebody is going to get hurt....BUT that is the risk you run...and when you do find your true love..its more than worth it....
ReplyDeleteThanks for listening....love the blog site Brandi! Keep it up!!!!
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This Ben I-mastermind. You right thats what it is. I have found by looking at my friend and being in the middle of the confusion that when men have options its hard for us to decide. Like you say we have feeling too but we don't want to but all are eggs in one basket. I understand this because right now i want a girlfriend to be true to and enjoy someone who is true to me but, it seems that girls do the same thing these days. So the question is who is telling the truth? How do you know when you are in a relationship? This one girl ask me that question just as you said i said most girls have a understanding when the relationship start where most men it has to be a spoken agreement. One day we will get it together! I hope !!!!!
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